A concerned individual has been seeking advice on how to navigate a delicate situation involving a friend whose ex-husband had cheated and left her with their two children. Despite wanting to support the children, the individual does not want to have any contact with the narcissistic ex-husband and his new partner. The advice given is to maintain a relationship with the children and their mother, while setting boundaries with the ex-husband. By continuing to have weekly dinners with the children and their mother, a steady and supportive presence can be maintained in their lives.
In another question, a heartbroken mother seeks advice on how to deal with her adult daughter who is struggling with addiction. The advice given is to admit powerlessness over the daughter’s addiction and to set boundaries around financial support. It is emphasized that guilt and shame will not motivate the daughter to recover, and it is important to seek support from family, friends, and support groups like SMART Recovery Family or Al-Anon.
Lastly, a reader shares their experience of dealing with anger towards an abusive family member. They found healing through writing a letter to the abuser, reading it aloud at their grave, and burying it. It took time and counseling to change their attitude towards the abuser, but they were able to release their anger and find a more positive perspective.
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